Sometimes in relationships, you will find that there are some blockers that stop sexual contact for a while. Sometimes you just drop out of the rhythm and sometimes you feel as though they do not initiate sex as much as they used to. While you may feel frustrated, it is important to recognize that your partner may be feeling the same way. Communication is key to getting over a dry spell in a relationship, and working at bringing back the spark is not easy. However, there are a few things that you can try.